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30: 3 Steps to Breaking Free From the "Grass Is Greener" Illusion

• Tara Mychelle • Episode 30

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3 Steps to Breaking Free From the "Grass Is Greener" Illusion


We explore the psychology behind the "grass is greener" mentality and how to recognize when we're operating from survival mode instead of thriving in the present moment. This episode offers a raw, unscripted look at breaking free from the cycle of constantly seeking better options elsewhere.

• Recognizing the "gap" between where we are and where we want to be
• How survival mode triggers us to look for greener pastures instead of watering our own grass
• The importance of staying committed rather than jumping ship when challenges arise
• Surrendering control when we notice ourselves spiraling into survival thinking
• Controlling the "controllables" like budgeting and daily routines to create stability
• Looking for evidence of flow and beauty in our current circumstances
• Understanding that safety is an internal state, not dependent on external conditions
• Recognizing that what we already have might be exactly what we need

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In today's episode we're going to do things a little different, but I am going to share with you three things I do when being in the gap and thinking that the grass is greener on the other side. Welcome back to the Intuitive Mentor Mom podcast, where we explore strategies for practicing more self-love, gratitude and finding new ways to empower ourselves in this ever-changing healing adventure of life happening for us. I'm your host, tara Michelle. Let's get started. Welcome back to the show, everybody. This is Intuitive Mentor Mom. I am really glad to have you with us. I wanted to discuss being in the gap and the grass is always greener. How familiar are you with thinking the grass is always greener? Why today's show is going to be a little different is it is off script, it's off the cuff. I wanted to get on here raw and in my truth as I journey and move through a gap and also recognizing things I've seen about myself and what's interesting, if you have had the chance to listen to any of the episodes previously, episode one, which is actually the first episode I did on this podcast, is called being in the Gap being in the Gap of Life and, as a recap to me, being in the Gap of Life is really about it's when you have A and B, a and B, a being the creation of something like saying I am creating a vacation, okay, and B being the date that you actually go on the vacation okay. In between A and B there's a gap. There's a gap called planning, saving maybe for money, or organizing. There's the gap of research, all the while, all of life is happening in between then. Another gap may be what I discussed in the gap of life in that episode one was I was laid off at that point and so my gap was from the time of being laid off to the time of the new job, and that gap being this space of who am I going to be in that amount of time? Because if you listen to episode one I talked about, you could either step into the doom and the gloom right and be in the context of oh no, life is over. Oh no, I'm doomed. It's gloomy. Oh my God, it's heavy, because there is that context with laying off or losing a job right. Or you could be in the gap of okay, actually that door closed, because a whole new door is opening and it's an opportunity for me to create something really amazing. So there's different perspectives that we can always look at in the gap. Right A gap can also be I'm using these examples in between the time of you know your search for that romantic relationship that you desire.

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That's one that I've been in for a while now. That's a gap that I've been exploring and it's got its highs and lows, and some days it's amazing and some days it's like Jesus, this sucks. But all the while, the point of the gap, my understanding of the gap, what I've come to recognize and realize, is that the gap is where all the juicy nuggets of life are. The gap is this moment in time where you are maybe uncertain, you are feeling unsettled, you may be excited, you may be scared. There's a number of ways of being in the gap, because there's this uncertainty of where life is going and what doors will open up next. But all the while, it is your job maybe I'll say due diligence to really take that time to experience all the ways of being that you move through and find the most empowering ways of being and cultivate and master those spaces, but without really experiencing. That which you may be experiencing could be fear or frustration, or anger, or sadness, or whatever those feelings are while you're in the gap. You know that's the contrast. Let me see if I can. Let me see if I can. I'm going to. You know, typically I like to have notes, but I really felt I had to get on here and just speak rawly and openly and truthfully. So, without going too much deeper, I think you get the example of what I'm trying to say.

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And so currently in my life, I'm in a gap, and the gap is in the area of what would you call it I heard financial well-being. And, for those of you new to listening to the show, I'm an intuitive. I have a lot of gifts, and one of the gifts is I get a lot of channeled messages and thoughts and I have a strong connection with God and my higher power. And so I hear a lot of messages and I hear and I listen to my guidance, I listen to my inner intuition and I listen to my guidance. And so I hear a lot of messages and I hear and I listen to my guidance, I listen to my inner intuition and I listen to my guidance. And so you might hear me navigating these conversations while on this show today, because I'm just getting on here and I'm just like we're going to do this today.

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So the gap that I've been navigating is financial well-being and something I noticed in the area of my career. I've noticed something that I do. I had to call one out on myself and when I feel pressure around money or finances and when I feel that I'm not going to achieve the goals I set out to achieve at work, or if I feel there's a challenge around them, how do I say it Basically? How I say it is if I don't think I'm going to make the money that I set out to make, I absolutely go to a survival way of being and that survival way of being kicks in and it starts to look for where the grass is greener. Okay, I've done that in the area of my career over the years. I've also done that in the area of real estate. I'm a very good real estate investor. I've learned a lot over the last. Golly, how long have I been in this market? 25 years, that's amazing. I can't believe it's been that long. I've played in and I can't say that I've dabbled, but I've played in the real estate game for the last 25 years and I've become very good at it. I've had some big losses and I've had some really big wins, but hindsight 2020. Okay, that's where we're going to go, cause this is what had me recognize a pattern of survival, and the pattern of survival is called.

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The grass is always greener. And I begin to look, begin looking for the greener grass. I want people to check in and hear for themselves while listening to this when have you looked at? The grass is greener. And so there's this thought around grass being greener. When you see or think the grass is greener, it's because that grass is being watered.

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If you think your grass is not green, you have to step back and say ask yourself am I watering it? Am I fertilizing it? Am I producing or adding more seeds, or am I just expecting it to grow without really fully putting the attention into it? And let's say you are putting attention into it, like I put attention into my career. And let's say you are putting attention into it Like I put attention into my career. However, are there new ways of attention that I can provide that tree called career? Are there areas of opportunity that I'm maybe missing because I'm used to doing certain? I'm used to doing things a certain way and then I have an expectation of what that result should be, and when that result doesn't show up the way I think it should go, I begin to look for where the grass is greener.

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I caught myself in that recently, and I saw it not only in the area of my career. I saw it in the area of dating. I saw it in the area of my career, I saw it in the area of dating, I saw it in the area of real estate, and I started seeing it in a lot of areas of my life. I started seeing that I'm looking for something better. Why? What's wrong with what I have? What is it that I'm afraid of right now? What is it that I'm afraid of right now? What is it that I'm fearing right now? When it came down to work, I was fearing that I wasn't going to produce the result. And I can't hold all the things that I have financially if I don't, if I don't produce the result. And is it me not producing the result, or is it that the company isn't providing me the resources to produce the result? Who is at the helm of producing this result? Well, it's me, but we'll get to that in a second.

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It's me, but when I'm in that state of survival, I begin to look outside. I absolutely look outside of myself for either the problem or the solution, and I saw that. I saw it from the space of the observer. Have you ever experienced yourself as the observer, and the observer being that you know that there's this soul within? Well, you may not know, you may not think you have a soul. Some people think different things. I believe I have a soul. I actually saw it from the perspective of the soul watching me.

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I want to say in third person, as the observer watching the machinery of my mind do what its basic protocol of survival is to do, because it's done it over and over and over and over throughout the span of my life. Now, this probably is led back to when my grandmother used to say you are a survivor, you're just like me and we are survivors. That's a context, that's interesting Survival, and what she meant, and she always said, is you're a fighter, just like your grandma and I am. I'm an absolute fighter. You know I'm a fighter in this world and in this life, and when I say I'm a fighter, it's like somebody who survives at all costs. So what does survival look like at all costs for you? I got to see it for myself, and I go to the grass is always greener, so let me go check out that pasture over there.

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As I began to recognize I was in that pattern. I saw how I would calculate and strategize around, starting to look at do I sell my house? Do I do these things? Do I downsize? What do I do? What do I do? What do I do? What do I do? And the only thing that I had to go back on was what I've done in the past and what I knew to do. Okay, and as I saw that I began to play out better versions of scenarios I've already done in the past is when I saw the pattern. And then I saw the hindsight 2020, and I recognized what if I'd never sold that very first house that I bought?

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And I'll give you an example the very first house I bought was in Los Angeles, california, in a little cute little area called Eagle Rock, and that was in 2000. And nobody wanted to live in Eagle Rock. Everybody thought that's so far away. Oh my God, why are you moving all the way over there Like Verdugo Road? Oh my God, that's forever away. It was $136,000. That house was oh, I'm sorry, that was the house my boyfriend and I at the time had bought prior to this house, before we broke up. But when that was in, that house was in Echo Park. Yes, we bought it for 136,000. If you can freaking believe that we broke up, he sold it for 550,000 two years later. But yeah, and those of you who are familiar with these neighborhoods I'm talking about, you're like oh my God. So I bought my house for $163,000 in Los Angeles in 2000. It's my very first little home, very cute, and I began to start being nostalgic.

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I feel as if. I feel as if in the last 90 days, I've gone through a kind of a dark night of the soul, being very nostalgic about these things I had deep in my past and things that I walked away from. I saw it in the area of romance, walked away from. I saw it in the area of romance. I saw it in the area of my real estate and houses and I saw it in the area of career. Now, in my career it's a little different, because in the three companies that I loved deeply the most, I was laid off and I was laid off and, um, I was laid off and so I had no control over those situations, and they were typically actually they were all big department layoffs. It wasn't like I personally was laid off, it was these big department downsizing layoffs, and so that was just an unfortunate situation. But, as you can imagine, I threw myself into survival mode in most of those situations. But, as you can imagine, I threw myself into survival mode in most of those situations.

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So, as I was looking back at these moments of nostalgic memories and thinking, well, why did I sell that first house? Oh, I was going through a big breakup. I had all these breakdowns going on in my life and I went into survival mode and I ran away and I sold a perfectly good property. Now I doubled my money, almost tripled my money, when I sold it. I'd only been there two years. But then I ran away back to Oakland, california, back home, only to move right back to LA a year later and I bought a house in Oakland, you know, did really well, sold it, made money to buy back into LA, at which point I had to buy a house at $460,000. Okay, now imagine, had I stayed at the little cute little house that I had for $163,000. At the little cute little house that I had for $163,000. And I look back at that and now that house has now been renovated, it's worth a million, I'm sure now today. I drove by it a couple of years ago and I was blown away. I was like, oh my God, look what they did to it. They did some beautiful things to it.

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But I started looking at moments like that in my lifetime and people might say, oh, but you're doing the shoulda, coulda woulda. Yes, I was. I was deep in the shoulda, coulda woulda. I was deep in the shoulda, coulda woulda. I was feeling deep of like, oh my God, I fucked up and I shouldn't have done that. Like I was in it and feeling it until all of a sudden, I was like, wait a minute, whoa. And I began to go to the place of the grass is always greener. I should start looking for this now. I should start doing this. Well, maybe I should do this and that and this and that and this and that and this and that.

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In that moment, I woke up to something that I know very well, and that is stay focused, stay the course and never give up. Ride the horse all the way through, complete the race. Whatever saying you want to say, like whatever it is stay the course, keep going, don't get off. Ride it till the end, stay committed.

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I look back at moments when I jumped ship and I have probable outcomes of what was possible had I not jumped ship. Had I not jumped ship, had I just stayed the course, I would have learned all the same lessons. Maybe I would have learned some of those lessons sooner. Maybe I would have more fruits of those labors sooner who knows right? Sooner who knows right.

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But I can guarantee in this moment what I saw for myself is that going to the grass is greener right now would not get me where I want to sooner. It might give me the larger paycheck. It might give me that temporary relief paycheck. It might give me that temporary relief. But does it accomplish my end goal and my end result? No, it actually pushes it further out. Why? Because I would have to start all over. I would have to start all over at a company. I would have to build all new momentum. I'd have to do all these things.

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If I chose to downsize and sell this house, I would regret it, I guarantee you. I would regret it Because when I found this place that we live in, it checked all the boxes and it was so easy, there was so much flow when I moved into it and it just happens to be that I'm in a gap. I went through a big layoff last year and I'm in a gap and what I saw for myself is there are three things to do for myself and maybe this will make a difference for you too when being in this space and I'm going to go over those in a second. But I also want to just say you know, it was really a big aha for me to see myself in action, in the state of survival, and not see it from this place of knowing that I'm in survival mode. That's a different thing when you know you're in survival mode. It's a different thing when you see it from the observer, when the observer is literally watching the machinery, the body and the being in action I don't know how else to explain it. As I'm the observer, it's like. It's like being in your body in the third person. It's almost like an outer body experience and you're like oh shit, when you think about that, like we're an avatar. Okay, like I was having an avatar moment. Okay, that's what it was like. It was like holy fuck, look at my avatar, just go into town. Let me take control of that, please. And that's the first thing I'm gonna tell you of the three things that I do and that you can do when you're in, that moment of the grass is always greener, because, I promise you, it may look green but that's because somebody is over there watering it, and then that I should bring that back because we have to water where we're at.

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I have an amazing friend, kindy Malat, who you can go back to. I believe it's episode 16, maybe 15, a couple different episodes. Back there, her and I talked and spoke on the podcast. We were talking about health and fitness because she was my trainer for a while and she's amazing. She's a nurse, she's a certified trainer, she's fantastic and I encourage you to look her up if you are in need of a great trainer. She's amazing. One of the things she always says, and I was reminded by one of my best friends that she says this and I was like, oh shit, oh yeah, control the controllables.

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Now, before you control the controllables. So actually I said this in, I said this in the wrong, I said this in the wrong order. Again, I told you I'm like off the cuff tonight or today, the first thing you have to do is surrender. You first have to surrender. You have to surrender to the survival and you have to stop and recognize that you're in the mode of survival. You're not thriving, you're surviving. You're operating from the amygdala, you're operating from instinct. You're operating from fight or flight, you're operating from cortisol spikes, you're operating from. You know there is no rooted thought. It's not coming from your core, your root, your I shouldn't even say your root. It's not coming from your heart. It actually is coming from the root chakra, because it's coming from the survival mode, but you're not coming from your heart, which I see. The heart is the root of the brain. Tannicle garden Remember I've said that that our mind is this beautiful garden and the root of that is the heart. But you're not in that space when you're in survival mode not at all. So the first step is surrender.

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What surrender looks like for me is I literally lay down on my floor and I just allow the earth or the ground to absorb me, and sometimes I'll just start crying because it's like I'm just giving up and saying okay, god, I hand this over to you because this is God's will, not mine. And when I'm over there driving the ship, you know, trying to drive it into the ground. It's going to go my way. It's going to go this way. It's going to happen. Now, when I do that shit, I just get on these bumpy roads and I'm like you know what I'm saying Like riding my little clunker down the road, bopping and bumping and like crashing into rocks and shit. Okay so, if that gives you an example, but that's what it's like when I'm steering from the state of survival, so surrender.

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Then you look at controlling those controllables. Thank you, kendi, for always like reminding me at controlling those controllables. Thank you, kendi, for always reminding me. Control those controllables. What does that look like For me? I hate it. It's a fucking budget. God, I hate budgeting. How many out there hate budgeting? Please raise your hand. You can raise your hand down in the comments. I hate budgeting. Or put budgeting and then I'll know that you're with me there.

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Budgeting, that's a control, controllable. I can control that. And when I don't control that, I don't manage that. Things get out of whack. Same with my health and fitness. Control the controllables. If I don't manage my food and log my food, then I might see a different outcome and then I'm gonna be like what's the matter? Well, because I'm not controlling the controllables.

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That's number two. Control your controllables. Surrender is number one. And number three look for the evidence of flow. So I had a bunch of beautiful evidence of flow this week and, honestly, I had one of the most productive weeks I've had in a very long time and I'm navigating big situations in my life, both from the area of career, um, from the area of finances, from the area of parenting. I have big things on my plate right now, none that are like it's nothing bad, it's just life. Life is lifing, life is looking like it's life when it's happening. But it's that space of looking for the evidence of where you're in flow and what I recognized this week.

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Not only did I have some really incredible wins around calls and productivity and things that were happening, but I also saw nature at its wildest and best this week. I had a hummingbird come to my window. I had a roadrunner in the backyard. I had the owls and the hawks flying back and forth on my property. I had the sun shining on my skin. I had beetles mating cicadas visiting.

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There was all this robust nature happening all around me and allowing me to witness it in so many beautiful ways. It in so many beautiful ways, in ways where I look down and this plant is like, blooming and bursting, with its fluffy white seeds coming off and blowing in the wind. I mean absolute beauty, magnificence, you know, and you can miss it. You know, I saw this beautiful cardinal taking a bath in my bird feeder right outside my window at work not at work in my office. As I was working, I clicked on my phone and started recording her, because she was in there just cleaning and the water spraying off. And as I'm recording her, the male comes up and feeds her while she's taking a bath and gives her a little bug, puts it in her mouth and flies away. And I'm thinking that is amazing. That's amazing Like that's nature, that's God loving me in this moment, that's beauty happening all around me and it really had me feel and experience being in flow, because what I chose was to surrender to the process and to surrender to all that I have.

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Surrender to this amazing job that I have that I actually truly enjoy, surrender to this beautiful house that I love and cherish and God shows me every day like I would be so sad if I had downsized to get out of this house for a temporary feeling of safety. Safety is within. Okay, can I just say that there is nothing outside of you that is going to have you feel safe. Safety is within. Safety is an inside job, and then it's strengthening yourself to trusting, knowing and believing that you are safe and all is well. All is well and you are safe at all times. You really are. Now. Are there circumstances in the world that may have us experience not being safe Absolutely, and will things happen Absolutely? That can happen, but at the end of the day, god has you, you are safe and all is well. It really is that and trusting and knowing and believing in that.

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So, as I said, the three things that you can do when you are in that state of survival, thinking the grass is always greener, being in the gap of your life or gaps of life is you can just take a moment, you can pause and you want to surrender. Let go, let God Put the armor down, put the wheel down, take your hands off of it it's going to be okay and then control the controllables and, from there, look for the evidence of life loving you, look for the evidence of flow, look for the evidence of all the goodness that's around you. Look for the evidence that you're healthy and well. Look for the evidence of your children's smiles and laughter and the joy in their life. Look for the evidence of all the magical and amazing things that you have accomplished. Look for the evidence it's right in front of you and we don't give ourselves enough credit.

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I don't give myself enough credit. I often just go into survival mode. I hit it on full throttle and I fucking take off and I'm like I'm going to take care of shit right now. Sometimes you just got to let go and trust and know that in that flow you're actually going to create more momentum and more good things are going to come faster. That's what we're so afraid of. We are so afraid of the outcome never occurring. We're so afraid of the outcome being out of reach. We're so afraid that the outcome is way out there, when, in fact, if we just let go and allow the boat to go downstream, you will reach the end. Or the gold, or the pot of gold, whatever it is, it's coming. The pot of gold, whatever it is, it's coming. It's going to be there in a moment, faster than you know. But we really get caught up I should say I get caught up in that cycle of survival and thinking that that outcome that I'm wanting right now isn't happening. It's not happening. Okay, what do I have to do to make it happen? How am I going to keep all these plates spinning? How am I going to keep everything? You know, how am I going to keep it all going when really it's all going? It's all going already, it's all going. But you know where that comes from, is you? We talk about financial peace.

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Everybody has a number in mind where they feel safe in their bank account. Right, when there's a certain number in your bank account, if it doesn't go down past that number, you're good, you're floating. But when it goes past a particular number, some people that number can be 500,000. Some people that number could be 10 million. Some people could have that number of a thousand. Some people can have the number of 500. You may be good, like when you're checking accounts at 500, you're like I'm good. Some of us are like, oh hell, if it goes past a certain number, oh shit is not good, I am not good. No, no, no, no, no, no.

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Say you don't have your emergency fund, or say your 401k isn't where you want it to be, or all the things I mean. That's what it is for me, like my emergency fund isn't where I want it to be, my 401k isn't where I want it to be, my emergency fund isn't where I want it to be, my 401k isn't where I want it to be, my savings isn't where I want it to be, and those things cause a literal state of panic in my gut and then, which then sends my brain to survival mode, because in those moments, I'm not controlling the controllables. I'm caught up in the idea and the thoughts, the illusion of things not working the way I want them to. It's an illusion. Okay, I want to leave everybody with that.

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I know today, you know, this episode wasn't like I didn't follow notes, I didn't do all those things, I just got on here to speak and it's really been coming up a lot for me. Around this area of the grass is always greener and I'm in a state of survival and for the first time in my life, I think I've decided that I'm going to continue watering these trees right here. I'm going to water this grass right here because it's beautiful and I'm missing. I'm missing the beauty of it by thinking there's something else out there. There isn't, and maybe there is. Maybe there is something better, but what's wrong with what I have? What? What is it that I could do different to create and plant new seeds and all I know with, like the area of my career. It's a simple thing.

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It takes time to rebuild a territory, and that's what the sales rep and I are doing. We're rebuilding a territory. It takes time to do that, and when it takes time to do that, there's a gap, and that's the gap we're in. We're both in. Our entire company is in, our entire team is in it. And rather than stay the course and be on the team, being the team player crushing it, my mind is over there like hey, go check this other thing out. No, be there. Be there with the team, be on the team. Fucking.

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Play like your fucking life survives, like your life depends on it. Play your heart out, smack the ball so far out of the field. Just crack it with the bat over and over and over, and sometimes you're not going to make it out of the field. So then you just fucking get back up there and you have the pitcher pitch that ball and you crack it and just like I used to in one of the episodes I was talking about basketball being, like you know, a great metaphor for the court of life Cause I also see it like a basketball game and you play your ass off, you play your ass off and you just keep shooting balls and you keep shooting, because eventually you're going to shoot and it's going to make it, and it's going to make it, and it's going to make it.

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And that's where I'm at, and I believe that there's something really beautiful on the other side of this. I believe that there's something really like everything I truly desire and want is going to happen, and I have to trust that. I know that it always does. God delivers. Sometimes I don't wait around for God's time. I'm like, fuck that, it's my time. Excuse my language. I think it's just the state I'm in. I'm like it's been a big week, it's been a long week, it's been a bit of a stressful week, and this is where I'm at.

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So I want to say thank you to all that have listened this long to my rant about the grass is always greener. I hope that some of the things I've shared have either shifted a perspective for you or shaken some things loose for you. I also invite you to leave a comment below. If you have questions, leave a comment. You have comments or suggestions? Leave a comment. If any of this resonated for you or you feel somebody could use like a little bit of this support, please share my episode or my show. It really helps it grow and I want to say thank you to all of you who continue to support me, to follow me. I'm so beyond grateful.

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I also want to let you know in the month of July I am going to be launching a heart healing workshop. Dates to be determined, it is a single date. It will be a 90 minute workshop. We're going to move and shift and remove blocks that are in your heart. So back to what I was talking about, with your mind being the garden and the root and the seed being the heart and this illusion that we call life right and you want your illusion of life to look differently, you have to tend to the garden in your mind and that garden, its seed, is the heart. So we are going to do some heart healing. We're going to do some heart cleaning. We're going to remove blocks, energy blocks, we're going to remove trauma. We're going to remove and shake things out and we're going to reconnect you, realign you to what the design of your mind is in terms of what you desire. Okay, so that is what we will be creating. I encourage you to keep an eye out.

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I will start posting the links down below with a date and time. I won't be in the show notes this week, but it will. It will start in the following show notes. I will let you know and it'll also be on my website TaraMichellecom and that's M-Y. It's Tara, m-y, c-h-e-l-l-ecom. So yeah, I'm excited to be working with any of those who want to experience some really fun and cool energy work.

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I will be working with a group of you on a group call, one-on-one, individually within the group call. It will be a live call. We will work together. We will talk one-on-one I shouldn't say one-on-one, but we'll talk amongst the group. I'll be able to provide some coaching, but then also we will be doing some rewiring and realigning on all of our hearts. So that is coming up in July. In the meantime, thank you to all of you stuck around listening to this show today. I hope that you have a beautiful rest of your weekend. I look forward to seeing you on the next episode and see you in two weeks. Thank you for coming on this healing adventure today. If you're starting to see how everything is falling into place for you, consider rating the show and sharing it with one of your friends. Keep that spirit alive and join me next week. Same place, same time. Have a great week.